You truly believe your superior and have more rights? The hadith is meant for two people who are married and are being the best husband and wife to one another. ________________________________________ but women are allowed to ask for KHULA (which is automatically granted) if man is impotent. Im in Saudi and not many men do it even though there are a ton of unmarried girls here in Saudi. We're best friends who can talk about anything with each other. You did your duty in the right way, that means you passed in your test with good marks, whatever your husband did, he is accountable for that to Allah. I think I am going to leave him and allow him to go back to his home country to his Real Family (whom I truly love). Btw if Muslim women want they can write a no-2nd marriage clause in their marriage contract during the nikah. There is no Hadith about men please note. He explained that no matter what he will try his best, but if he ends up finding a 2nd wife he mentioned that he would never leave me and take on the responsibilities as a husband and father and never leave my side.i am just so dumbfounded about all this, i know that forever is long.i just dont know what to think of iti am glad i read your post though, it has got me thinking, but i am still in the clouds about iti am a christian, and i dont know whether i should stay in this relationship or just call it quits..i do love him with all my heart, i am just a bit hesitant on the other 2nd person if ever that comes to pass, he said he will try his best, but what if it does happen, is the question. They are in denial. I am not hurt by your comment but I believe this article only wants to be as realistic as possible. This pattern may be repeated when you are i met my husband 11 years ago and all through my marriage has been very bad and secrets and lies and he do haram to his body ..and the first month and before was good all was done halal but from problem s he did i lost all respect especially when i found out he had second wife i excepted it and became friend s to her because allah say,even it killed me inside i did this only for my children to still have father and i did as wife should do but the teaching he showed me i never believed from allah as allah is fair to both some people use islam for there own need s to cover there mistakes anything i did was wrong and man is like child most of time i was drained and anything i did good was wrong his haram was always halal to him no matter wat i said now its only me my children and i hope allah punish all man that put good wifes and children through this to suit there haram ways. When we wrote our nikkah, I ask this to be added. If the conditions for a second marriage are right according to the Shari`ah, he can legally go ahead and marry. Ward off from yourselves and your families a Fire whereof the fuel is men and stones, over which are set angels strong, severe, who resist not Allah in that which He commandeth them, but do that which they are commanded. (Verse 66: 6). The fair among wives in Sharia is to equate wives in mabit (overnight / stay), eating, drinking, shelter, and clothing. (Raddul Mukhtar, Ibn Abidin, 3/378), Being fair is not easy. .you can teach manners n respect n every thing else to a woman cause u feed her but who teaches the wild horse running around in the greed to conquer the world.my ears are sick n tiered of listening to the word peer pressures.exposer n all that crap.by God theres a thing called shaitan n we all have to fight it. Just because man is ALLOWED to take a second wife, doesnt mean he should. I am a white English revert sister, who was raised Catholic my whole life before coming to Islam, so I know I am fighting my ingrained culture when I feel instinctively against it. In particular the Hadith. How she feels is less valuable than him getting off. I do not understand. For me it is so repulsive to imagine my beloved husband having another woman, making love to her and then the next day coming to me and making love to me. Out of them, nadima was married for four years. A good wife is pressures, a husband sometime forgets what his got. according to islam wat is the solution for this? The man whom I have spent my life with, snatched away from me in a second. Dear questioner! despite all this my husband chats to women and deep down i have strong reason to suspect he has been with other women. The Truth is, one who does an atoms weight of evil,will see it. , Just wanted to add, dont be afraid to compliment him. Made us cook only traditional food. Get it together men. Islam put an upper limit of four wives. Remember Allah only help those who help themselves. Tip Of The Week Safeguard Your Home From Shaytaan. If you respect your husband and his needs ISA he will respect yours. His second wife was always texting me or ringing me to insult me and amenice me. For a single woman to dream that she is being loved by a husband is a sign that it is time for her to think of marriage. Informative article. desires appear attractive. Judge by what is right according to Quran and you will see how Allah subhanahu wa taala will sent double fold of blessings your way.. It was a woman recently divorced, 4 children. Salam theres a thing called devil n he took the better of my husband n he repeated himself in his act of betreyal.god damn it it hurts.n its all this male mustangs fault.respect,huh!!! Salam Aleykum, doing something that is haraam, so how can he pray istikhaarah and claim Whatever you decide to do (leave him or try again), may Allah guide you towards the right path and give you happiness. bringing the woman in house and i have to live as if i`m a business partner shop. An outrage. iii) If he is not satisfied with his first wife in serious matters. If the wife has a genuine reason for not meeting the husbands needs then she will be forgiven inshaAllah. My husband married another girl without informing me. TO ME WHEN THINGS ARE ALLOWED IN AL QURANTHERE WILL ALWAYS BE A BLESSING IN DISGUISE form a relationship with a non-mahram man. Remember humans are imperfect but Allah and the quaran Islam is perfect. These doubts will persist and will be a cause of anxiety for Krishna had several wives. It is still adultry. i wont share my husband even after my death. But this year, he told me many lies. It would be difficult for my husband to provide for multiple wives, both financially and emotionally. if the woman is given that and still ignores her husbands needs and wants then youve obviously married the wrong kind of woman, women shouldnt get away with being rude and disrespectful for no reason, infact they deserve to be left alone unmarried so they can learn and reflect and make a change in themselves. Do little things to get him to improve his Islam. Also, the second wife is family too. Brothers, marriage involves two people. Thats what life is. JAK for this comment! 30 January, 2022 Q I am a converted Muslim from the UK. Threaten her with divorce. If the husband takes a second wife, the wife has a right to divorce him. Good question. Everytime it isnt a happy hour to spend. Allaah has caused men to be attracted to women, and women to and content and treat him well so that you can attain the reward of the Islam even make a wife to ask for permission from her husband if she wants to fast (not Ramadhan fasting). My husband divorced me during menses 11 years ago. Questions cannot be asked through this form. Everyone is touched by time, but who he is inside is what matters. and today am happily living with my husband and a bouncing baby boy , with all this help rendered to me through this DR ABULU OF (abuluspiritualtemple@yahoo.com )i will always thank him forever and testify his goodness in my life for other,s to hear an see , once again thank you DR for bringing back my family . For instance, if the second marriage is likely to upset the first marriage and the family structure already established, then a second marriage should be avoided, as it undermines the very purpose of the Islamic rules of marriage. But we need to understand the spirit of the Islamic ruling first. If available, get professional support or involve trusted friends that understand the cultural background. I think since you do not really get to know a person until you live with them, then the wife should have the opportunity to get to know and be comfortable with her new life before intimacy. Lol ur funny! Annie, I realize this article dated from 2017 and you asked a fantastic question. (interpretation of the meaning): Verily, he who fears Allaah with obedience to Him (by A number of years ago now, I met and fell in love with a Persian woman who was a very devout Muslim. I am a revert alhomdolillah and married to an incredible Muslim man. disobeying Allaah or going against His commands, this is a sin for which he I wanna be there for her in every way she would want and need. So figure it out It is not just about you. Women want physical intimacy too. In marriage at least men are asking for HALAL sex , men are just more horny than girls so if you love your husband and he needs you to relieve his sexual desires then so be it . Suppose my sister happens to be one of the unmarried women living in USA, or suppose your sister happens to be one of the unmarried women in USA. However, in most cases, when the secret is revealed, the wife never accepts the situation nor forgives the husband. I thought I wanted to convert but to see this is how men really think? married to him. Great Britain has four million more females as compared to males. I know what this marriages can do, my father married many wives and the out come was not good, the wives ended up hating each other and we the children did not get olong with each other. to Allaah for this great blessing and strive to preserve it and the family And its so true toom some times I feel un loved by my husband and I always feel he doesnt share things with me. take time to find out. I needed to get out, to work and find a place of our own instead of living off the leftovers of others. my husband is never happy, he will open mouth to criticize, if salt was less, or it tested bland. If he loves you enough he is not gonna be thinking of considering another wife or another woman even for a second. The author of the article should revise that fact about multiple marriages and how it say it should be undertaken only due to dire needs (not because He wants to for fun). sister Fatima, May ALLAH forgive you. Not young enough or just plain not ENOUGH! I assure sisters dont think of men afterall everyone knows that Allah designed men and women differently. Asalaamualaykum. i understand now whyand hope that we can adjust to each other more. that He creates love and compassion between them, and helps each of them to I have 5 years old boy child. Definition of Polygamy Polygamy means a system of marriage whereby one person has more than one spouse. Polygamy is a big responsibility. @Marij Usmani Yes, it is a sin for muslim man or muslim woman to have an extra-marital affair or a pre-marital affair, be it with a muslim or non-muslim. Try to investigate on him. If it were me, its then that I would not be available for him at that given time. This quick list is for the Muslim sisters in my audience. yeah sure , hell like that. I could be a second wife because those feelings of not being enough would not arise. The way the Prophet did fair to his wives, Rasulullah SAW, we know that Rasulullah SAW has more than one wife. So, now YOU move away from in front of the TV and make ME a sandwich. And we do need your support.And its very troubling to be married to a woman who may not be around when the going gets tough.If you are constantly threatening divorce or separation or Khula (Islamic divorce initiated by the wife), you can expect your marriage to fizzle out very quickly. The person I was getting married knew I never wanted to marry him and I dislike him from my heart and I can never love him. Sometimes for beauty and truth, other times to be selfish or destructive. The dream about your husband is a good omen, foretelling some pleasant events. this second wife issue is not for fun as many men want to believe. There are even Hadiths that say that it would destroy the marriage if the woman took the role of the man and vice versa. That is a bit of a dangerous position to be in. Actually, this can be part of the marriage contract. Soon all went to waste and we started losing everything one by one. Ameen. You need to make taubah and try to learn more. ITS THE HOLY QURAN SO ITS ALLAH WORDS THAT WE R TO OBEY CLEARLY ALLAH KNOWNS ALL THINGS TO B TRUE . This reward is in addition to the womans reward for obeying The matter of the fact is men are only permissble to marry when there is a geniune reason exists along with prerequisites. With all due respect to the way you love your husband and in your believe, Il like you to clarify few points Men are not required to take permission from their wife or wives if they are marrying again .. it is better for them to inform their wife. Ds my true life I am leaving with Allahs mercy. All of the effort from a mans side to make his wife happy goes down the drain if he feels free to take on a second wife anytime.. plus he WOULD go to hell!! Can I marry her? Dont use any abusive word to express your feelings. in fact id start to wonder if he had been playing away, or at least pocket billiard rather too often.. if he ALWAYS seems to be content when you say you are just so considerate.. Wat she really wanta is ur love, patience, to feel safe and secure in her marriage. I so desperately wanted it to work out. not want to and he still goes ahead with it? Why is she told to be patient and only concentrate on her aakhira and ask Allah for sabr and endurance and try to behave well, even better than before to her husband so as not to lose her place in his heart or in his life? And about this respect issue, nothing comes by itself. Its your right to add into your nikkah this is not acceptable to you that he takes a second wife without you first knowing and also put in your nikkah that at that time its your right to have a divorce at this time. i loved a muslim man. There are, however sir, double standards- and I think thats part of the root of what most people here contradicting you are getting mad about. sis if u r true Muslim then I would deeply advise you to fear ALLAH. Arabbi. These cookies track visitors across websites and collect information to provide customized ads. Sharing his love, his smiles, his jokes with a woman other than myself. I was so happy because I met this man that I thought was honest, faithful, trustworthy, and sincere. 4. Brothers, dont blame your wives if you start having impure thoughts about other women. But for the sake of all our good, call it truce and take care of each other, and dont resort to these extreme rights. She took my hand and with tears in her eyes said: This is very hard for me, but I hope that we can be sisters her words broke my heart. Try to reconcile all the lack of trust or resentment. There are several other reasons, why Islam has permitted limited polygyny, but it is mainly to protect the modesty of women. Men are using their own ways of thinking to have more than one wife but there will always be one wife he will like more or give something more to. Polygamy, Not My Problem- A Muslim Woman. Watch this emotional cartoon animation to see how a man married another woman without first divorcing his wife. JOIN US Facebook https://bit.ly/3yOap. something haraam. Sex releases stress. But there is Quranic verse. dont thomp your thinking on all men! Why is that what mean want and/or need is some kind of standard and women should just be satisfied with whatever emotional crumbs her husband tosses? Surely a Muslim husband would be accommodating and respectful of his wife in full But for the couple who are in agreement with one another and understand one another and know that perhaps you have had a long day, your stressed about work, your worried about your childrens exams etcc..The husband should understand and in that regard the hadiths punishment does not apply. He got emotionally attached to this lady. no one can add or reduce quran, As in one of the hadith below is one of the stories how the Prophet SAW fair to his wives. Bukhari and Muslim. Here are some of the rules in Islam that must be taken seriously. The question is, how do his parents need support and why is getting married in Egypt going to fulfill that? Below here is the following hadith that explain this. If you are living off her money. The cookie is set by the GDPR Cookie Consent plugin and is used to store whether or not user has consented to the use of cookies. But watching comments & after reading the article Id like to say that SEX is not only the thing keeping marriages prosper & happy life. dis is remainder to our dear sister, jst vice-vasa may ALLAH c us tru.tanx, InSha Allah. does not engage in sexual relations)." I have a lot more to say but I feel I have said enough. I cannot say Im a Muslim but I will not give charity (zakat) Its not pick and choose. 14. Allah is watching and the almighty will give you strength and courage. It is also worth mentioning that your relationship with his parents probably has a role in this as well. Both my husband (also 30s) and I were thrilled to be expecting a baby and this was very much wanted and hoped for. But communicating your intentions this way is better (in my opinion) than getting jealous over a man thinking of other women because those thoughts do come back to you if you make him aware of potential competition, especially if he feels like your a good woman for him. Muslim family and the divorce of two spouses who love one another, and the Does he And as for he thinks of other women when you treat us like this, it is then we wish we had another husband who is a gorgeous hero.. This means that these people do not wish to marry women. Although I have watched horrible videos in the past, I try not to anymore. So the Prophet was married to one woman Sayyidah Khadijah until he was 54 and had 9 wives after that." (Professor Wahbah az-Zuhayli, VII, 169, 170) There are a lot of special reasons: 1. So inshAllaah we just have to be patient with this idea, even if we are a bit jealous. Our teachings go back a very long time, what Allah has given the Prophet (PBUH) to teach us is final, to question it is not right.equality is important, and we are taught that. whispers is to ask yourself the following questions and answer them If and only if she did this in the marriage contract, then he is not allowed to do that without her permission. decreed jealousy for women and jihad for men, so whoever bears that with AstafirAllah. Its halal but the man has to live up with it. Dont get angry if your wife is not thrilled by certain gestures someone else told you drives women crazy. The purpose behind multiplr marriages was to help and sehlter war victims or widows. neglect of their children. SubhanAllah ladies , stop being selfish . Ive sat and told my husband how i feel and he does nothing, Ive done nothing but encourage my husband in the nicest possible way to do something with his life, run his own business etc but it falls on deaf ears now i have resorted to confiding in my family when Im down and cant take no more. Impotence is not the same thing as infertility. Really. As it is the duty of Muslims to fulfill all obligations, the Muslim husband cannot but honor such a condition. If you (men) want to do a second marriage. This article is so sexist its hilarious. Do they feel you are the reason their son is not in Egypt taking care of them? Why do you a strange man have to carry another mans burden? and the worst (halal) thing in marriage is divorce..correct me if im wrong anyone! Her patience in putting up with her husbands marrying a He was kind and gentle with them. He will not got to hell for taking another wife. loves Al-Muhsinoon (the gooddoers). No one likes to be preached to.But if you do this right, youll be getting a double reward: The reward that comes with living with a righteous husband. It cannot be said that a Muslim who has two, three or four wives is a better Muslim as compared to a Muslim who has only one wife. I found this to be quite patronising and if Im not mistaken it was written by a male? In general, being single and dreaming you are married is a good sign, but . (interpretation of the meaning): Only those who are patient shall receive their reward in Allah knows best , there is a reason for this , you just need trust Allah . I got really hurt and extremely disappointed. salam,im sure the article written is in good faith n might help some but by God centuries have passed in trying to teach women how to make their husbands happy,not that theres no more need 4 it yet its about time as per the holyQuran when women will ask what my fault was!!! First bring your husband to defend himself. We married in the Church about a year before our baby was born. therefore he may likely to love d one who shows much respect most. well sis dont get married then. marrying someone other than her husband when she is still married to her Allah says, Then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four. (An-Nisa: 3) We dont tell our wives I love you often enough. and look at the attitude of the person with a lot of knowledge.everything is wasted on the author.He is such a fool.using religion to put forward his dirty thinking.Alhamdulillah there are good muslim men out there.Dont spread your poison in the name of religion.Fear Allah. so dont worry.lol. In the future there will be men who cherry pick aspects of the faith for example they will practice pologamy but they wont keep the beard as they dont see any significance. Let us now analyse why Islam allows a man to have more than one wife. But he sends all love messages to his 2 nd wife. i agree with u kay. I just wanted to mention that its natural for men to think of other women just like its natural for women to think of other men. It was a good article and the author wrote it with good intention. Please find all facts on islamweb.net I always go by them but Quran is key we have to read and understand.. on a personal note I would not except either but for sure would let him marry without any issue and say goodbye: remember how did he find this second wife by lowering his gaze ? subhanallah! It does not store any personal data. So.If the women is the bread winners, is the shoe on the other foot? Be careful sisters. Hi,I came across this when googling about Islamic views on male fantasies.I have been married for the last 8 years and realised my husband not only think about other women (which you seem to agree that most men do,well most straight men at least) but what is recommended that I do should I realise that not only does my husband think about other women,he thinks about having sex with them as well.I find it truly disturbing and upsetting not to mention disrespectful but he seemed to be forcing me to accept this is what it really is.I am truly lost.Please advise. Whatever Allaah makes easy for him then you have the right to separate from him and rightfully demand a divorce from the shariah court (if his actions are violent and selfish and hurtful to you then our dua are truly with you. In Islam, of course, this is permissible if the wife approves her husband wishes. She lives in Senegal with her husband and his other wives. i really like this article. So permission from his first wife would be SHIRK.Proof Please. When I met her, she was a person, a woman like me. i`m not able to give my second husband a baby. Advertisement cookies are used to provide visitors with relevant ads and marketing campaigns. But there are no ex children. OK, he won't cheat because it will be a legitimate marriage instead of an affair, but isn't it still really bad? I will be sure to remember all the other useful information in this article in my marriage Insha Allah. Your husband is then forbidden from a 2nd wife unless he wants a divorce. wslm so true,lol you cant change a man if he doesnt want too change.And why be a sucker for punishment when you know there is someone out there that will appriciate you for who u are. whatever u feel is just ur buisness,what u do to others is that what counts.go about fantasising,even the Lord does not put a reign to it but 4 heavens sake ur wife is a human and it is quiet possible infact true in most cases in our so called MUSLIM SOCIETIES that women do all that n mre.i am a living example n i wont let anyone bring me down by justifying mens actions after all that ive been thru.my dear sisters i am beautiful,,loving ,loyal never refused sex,even for a single day.he used to tell me ur the goddess ov it all.My Lord had to bring me down cause i made my husband my lord.yes!!! We want a gorgeous hero for a husband ad much ad you want a gorgeous wife. 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